If you find yourself bouncing between self confidence and doubt, it's probably because you've got the Unlucky Fkr mindset stuck in your thinking. Simply this means you're living in hope that you'll find a partner, job, health, financial plan, spiritual teacher that will create for you an all upside lifestyle.
Understandable in a way because that's what sells. We buy pleasure over pain, right over wrong, good over bad in the hope of eliminating the downside of things. Sadly, it's a hope that can't be met by reality and will probably make you frustrated, angry and at worst, depressed.
In contrast, Lky Fkr builds realism into life thinking and therefore eliminates the frustration over things that don't go to plan.