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In 2005 I wrote a book "sacred love" the honeymoon that lasts forever" and since then I've had 5 live in relationships. It may seem that I'm not walking my talk. But I am.

This blog isn't a how to, or what not to do. It's about Divine Love... and how to find it again once you sacrifice it - and I'm an expert at doing both.

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Living between Earth and sky

We human beings live between the two realities of earth and sky. Earth stands for all that is practical, material, tangible and incarnate. It is the material world. We learn about it through living a life of discovery and observation. We experience this world and its knowledge through the vast door of personal accumulated and collective experience. There is one word for all this. It is Nature.

Nature is composed of the five elements which we characterised as earth, water, fire, air, and ether (or space as it’s now known). Consequently the body is made up of the same five elements which is why we also use the term human nature for the body.

Sex, Love, Intimacy, Soul - Learning the Difference the Hard Way

Over the past 40 years I have fallen in love with thousands of women. Beautiful amzing women from all countries and all shapes and sizes. I fall in love easily. I like this about me.

Of the thousands of women I’ve fallen in love with, about 30 have responded with sex instantaneously. The day I met my first wife I was 19 and we slept together on the first night. Then came a list of other situations where, with a moment of connection women have responded with sex and in most cases, I’ve called it love.

Self leadership

A master in the art of living draws no sharp distinction between his work and his play; his labor and his leisure; his mind and his body; his education and his recreation. He hardly knows which is which. He simply pursues his vision of excellence through whatever he is doing, and leaves others to determine whether he is working or playing. To himself, he always appears to be doing both.

L. P. Jacks in Education through Recreation (1932)

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Getting Organized For Change

"All human disaster and tragedy comes from disharmony with the Laws of Nature"

It's not what we think that makes the biggest difference in our life, it's more about how we think that matters. And this leads directly to the topic of this article.

Change is what happens when we don't evolve. 

A tsunami is what happens when little adjustments don't happen. People have personal tsunami's too, and it's because their EGO stayed stuck for just too long.

Why Hanging on to Bad Relationships Only Causes Problems

Bad relationships often drive great careers. People who are not getting what they want at home, become hungry at work, they want more out of it, put more into it and drive hard to get it. But, at the end of the day, a life filled with success but empty of love is not going to satisfy.

Ten seconds after your relationship starts there can be the start of a diminishing value. We, of course, deny it, deny the signs of it, and therefore adapt to it.

Ways that will make Every Relationship Last

1. Draw lines in the Sand

Love grows at the border of support and challenge, but when challenge turns to emotional bullying, criticism or repeated ingratitude, almost like a habit, it's time to push back. If the push back is done without emotion, it will not be welcome but it will be accepted. If the push back is done with emotion it will not be welcome and it will be rejected. The longer we leave push back, the more emotion we'll have and so, it's better to draw lines in the sand on an everyday basis than to be thinking short term, acting long term.

Peter goes to a coffee shop with his girlfriend

Did She Change or Was it Just Another True Lie?

"Oh, I've really changed" she said to me, begging for another chance at our, now defunct relationship. I pondered it for a moment, "how would I ever really know it that promise is real, sustainable or just a temporary glitch... a true lie?

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Inspired Love - A Better Way to Live in A Loving Relationship...

There are many forms of relationship we can have with a significant other but, we complicate our relationships so much, it's hard to know how to really make them last. This article shows how to choose, sustain and grow a love filled relationship.

If you know what somebody wants, you can seduce, manipulate, romance, attract, make happy, please, placate, manipulate (oh, I said that), sex, arouse, cause lust, make them feel masculine or feminine, and more.. in simple terms you can mess with their head, heart and body... it's easy. Just give them what they want.

There is only one thing that challenges this as a long term strategy is the fact that, like it or not, Humans Adapt. Wants breed Wants.

Seven Seven Minute Ways to Improve Your Relationship for Less than $7.77

1. Beg, steal, borrow, buy, download a copy of “the Four Hour Body” by Timothy Ferris - Go to page 237 The Fifteen Minute Orgasm. Now, here comes the rub so to speak... if you can't be bothered trying it, don't continue with this list. Declare to your partner that you're really just in your relationship for the take away. Cost so far, $0 unless you need to buy the book, but you can pool that cost with friends.

2. Sit down face to face with your partner about one meter appart. USe chairs or sit on a cushion - you'll be here for 10 minutes. Make your back straight, your breathing through your nose, your mind calm, no music, no tv, no interuptions and most important no touchy. (you can also do this lying on your side facing each other but it's hard to stay in that position for 10 minutes without fidgeting. Now just look into each others eyes. If you start giggling start over for another 10 minutes. In your partner's eyes is the reflection of your commitment to this relationship. If it's deep you'll stay focussed, shallow you'll break. By setting a ten minute timer, you'll automatically extend your relationship to better places. If you can't look them in the eye, or they you, let it be said, "don't bother continuing."

3. Create a nickname for your partner that makes them smile, "mi amour" or "princess" or "gorgeous" don't make it demeaning, but think, what would they love to believe about themselves that they currently don't. For example "hi handsome" might make some guys challenge their ideas about themselves. Or Hi "pussy cat" might make a deadly serious woman feel nicer about her soft side. Don't be afraid to experiment, but most important, it must make you smile with goodness when you say it. Don't worry about their reaction, the key is for you to be sent into a good space when you say it....

4. Practice Intimacy... do this simply by choosing a topic, say "world peace" or "the Government of the day" and have a debate. Choose sides by drawing straws or flipping a coin, then argue your side, for or against. Now the idea here is to be willing to 1. be heard 2. listen 3. be challenged on what you say 4. challenge your partner on what they say .... and the key, to do this with respect for their opinions... it's a great exercise in exploring middle ground. The whole idea is that you should, if it's a healthy debate, come to the conclusion that there is no winner, and you need to get used to the idea that there are always two equal sides to a debate... and you can. if you choose, play either. (get past your ego)

5. Bring nature into your home. A flower, a leaf, a fruit, a branch, a shell, a rock... gift your partner something from nature every day and, most importantly, give it with a thought about how this object from nature reminds you of their beauty or something special about them. It's too easy to drop the consciousness of a relationship to "Fear" and Thinking .. and only talk about the shallow ideas of what you want, and feel. THat's not a relatonship of love, it's one of need and it will soon become unsatisfying, even if you do get your physical, financial and social (friendship) needs met - a relationship with a lover is meant to provide much, much more... and we really can't live happy or inspired in life without that much, much, much, much more that relationships provide.

6. Ask yourself this question, "Are you in this relationship because you couldn't even dream of finding something better, or because it's better than being alone. If your partner isn't the "best" of the rest, then you're in it for all the wrong reasons. In a global competition for the most fantastic person you know, at all levels of life, if your partner doesn't win by a country mile, you'd either be wise to rethink it, or admit that you are just avoiding being lonely, and stop wasting their life. 

7. Get a life. When you met your partner you were probably looking after all the aspects of your life by diversity and some me time. You might have been dancing with friends, going running, taking holidays to crazy places. The more you give that up, in the interests of "being with your partner' the higher the probability you'll be in your relationship trying to suck life out of your partner, rather than bring it. And let's be clear, although partners might demand conformity to their rules, they'll soon get bored with someone who really hasn't got a life. Which is, believe it or not, the inevitable result of listening to your partner's advice. It takes courage but you can, in spite of their temper tantrums, say no, and be better off for it.